Scientists have written about the dangers of confirmation bias… the concept that you will get the results of an experiment that you expect to see.  We’ve even discovered that human intervention by way of intent will also influence the outcome of the experiment.  So is confirmation bias really another way to explain the Law of Attraction? 
This is so impactful because it means if you expect bad things, i.e.,… “I’m not good enough, no one will hire me”, etc.  then you will experience confirmation bias throwing you into a negative energy cycle.  The more you expect bad outcomes, the more they show up and by showing up, you believe it more. 
So how do we bust out of this cycle with your self beliefs or beliefs about others.  The trick is to use your childlike gift of imagination. What if yourself.  What if _________ was true?  For some, it might be that they can’t imagine it.  If this is you, then use baby steps to get there.  If you can’t picture it in your mind, it can’t manifest in the physical world either. 
Next listen to the yabuts.  After you picture the beautiful car, new house, great job, perfect companion – what yabuts show up?  Those are the doubtful statements that start with “Yeah, but…”.  They are the window to your confirmation bias.  Turn it around.  If your yabut is I’ll never have enough money to afford that then play around with experimenting with a confirmation bias that it does.  List all the ways money comes to you, or better yet, all of the ways it could come to fruition… the lottery, a gift etc.
The following step is to ask yourself where did the yabut come from?  When did you start believing that?  Chances are you were very young, in a very different situation, or someone’s saddled you with it.  Investigate to see if that belief is serving your life.  If not, then cast it off and choose a belief that does.